The 'Road to Self' Program is the #1 resource for mastering self-differentiation and breaking free from family and relationship dysfunction—even when those dynamics will never change. This program is an investment in YOU and your life moving forward. It's an investment in your peace, your confidence, your boundaries, your ability to connect with others in healthy ways, and your ability to effectively reject unhealthy dynamics in your life.

For the past 45 years, Jerry Wise has dedicated his career to helping thousands of clients in over 110 countries heal from narcissistic, dysfunctional, and emotionally immature families. This approach focuses on your self-differentiation and addresses the severity and ongoing dysfunction that most self-help advice fails to adequately support.

Jerry is a world-renowned speaker, family and marriage therapist, and family systems coach. He shares his unique methods with millions of people online each month, teaching them how to heal from the damaging effects of family dysfunction once and for all. His goal is to help individuals recover the self they were never allowed to be—peaceful, confident, and calm—whether they are in contact with their family or not.

The program is designed to fit seamlessly into your schedule. You'll receive immediate access to all 6 modules (+ bonuses), each packed with insights, practical tools, and exercises. This self-paced approach allows you to tailor the program to your unique challenges and progress at your own pace.

This isn't a program you'll consume in a weekend and start seeing results by Monday. It's a comprehensive blueprint that requires time to learn, revisit, and make your second nature. However, if you're willing to roll up your sleeves and do the self-differentiation work required, you will see results.

There are many healing programs out there, but non of them focus on self-differentiation which is crucial for people who grew up in dysfunctional families.

A true process of healing is about self-differentiating yourself from the dysfunction, so it no longer has an impact on you, even if others never change. Achieving self-differentiation is nearly impossible if you never outgrow the dysfunctional imprinting you inherited growing up and took with you into adulthood. You will continue looking in the wrong places, looking at the wrong things through a dysfunctional and broken filter. My goal is to help you develop a more healthy, authentic self—a self that is mature, less anxious, less reactive, clear-thinking, intentional and happier.

This program will move you from the dysfunctional family reality you perceive as normal to a non-dysfunctional way of thinking, feeling, and being. The first is programmed and might currently feel normal, and the second is learned and at first will feel awkward or unfamiliar, but with persistence, it will become the way you non-negotiably live your life.

The program is easy to understand and implement. If you need help, you can ask questions in the program's exclusive community. Members dealing with similar issues or the team will direct you to the most helpful modules and tools for your situation.

'Road to Self' offers deep insights and strategies that could have prevented many of your current issues if known earlier. The program focuses on the universal dysfunctional processes underpinning all relationship dysfunction, allowing you to stop these patterns and cultivate relationships built on health, maturity, and self-differentiation. If you want to finally break free from the damaging impacts of growing up in a narcissistic, dysfunctional, or emotionally immature family system, this program is for you.

This program is not about your family, it is about YOU! It's about extracting your family of origin's influence and imprinting from you, regardless of how "crazy" they are and regardless of whether you are in contact with them or not.

The best answer I can offer here is real feedback we get from members almost on a daily basis:

“I have been to many therapists and one week in the program has done more for me then years in therapy”, David, 54.

”I wish I knew all of this 30 years ago”. Mati, 49.

I wish I had known this decades ago. Marie, 63.

I wish I had access to this program earlier in my life. Jhon, 54.

I am 66 today, I wish I had this information 50 years ago when I really needed it. Athena, 66.

Lot’s of my therapy through the years has been hit-and-miss, this program was the missing piece in my puzzle. Ron, 34.

I've been in therapy for almost 18 years, and I'm just not sure why what I achieved in two months in the program wasn't achievable earlier. I might need to change therapists, haha. Ben, 41.

Unfortunately, this is a common experience for many people who have sought help from psychologists and other programs. Despite their efforts, the changes they experienced were often limited to small adjustments, leaving them feeling stuck and frustrated. This was my experience too, until I learned to focus on my own self-differentiation. By doing so, I was able to create lasting and meaningful change that did not rely on others unchanging dysfunctional behavior.

If you find Jerry's videos and ideas helpful, joining 'Road to Self' can provide a strong foundation to make your sessions with your therapist or your involvement in another program more effective. If you feel that your current therapy or program is somewhat helpful but not fully helping you finally get your family out of you, this program will be crucial to you.

The Road to Self program will absolutely be helpful to you if your parents were highly reactive and emotionally immature. The program is not limited to narcissistic or toxic types of families.

Everybody is becoming an expert on narcissism and dysfunctional relationships. I’D LIKE YOU TO BECOME AN EXPERT ON YOURSELF. Knowing information doesn’t fix you. It’s helpful, but it's less important than finally knowing how to be YOURSELF, even if others never change.

If your parents are or were any of the following, this program is for you:

• Emotionally immature

• Enmeshed

• Highly reactive

• Codependent

• Self-absorbed

• Controlling

• Guilting

• Shaming

• Neglectful

• Alcoholic

• Narcissistic

• Toxic

• Dysfunctional

• Emotionally abusive

• Physically abusive

• And any other version of dysfunction in between!

It’s time to stop focusing on others and their dysfunction, and finally start focusing on YOU.

Yes! The principles and tools taught in this program are beneficial for anyone seeking to improve their emotional resilience and relationship dynamics, regardless of their current family situation.

I focus primarily on healing from family relationships, as family is where you learn how to be in relationships. You learn how to tolerate dysfunction, when to feel guilty and shame, when not to set boundaries with others, and how to respond weakly to boundary violations.

The program will help you heal the relationships in your life that need healing by learning to be the real you, in any relationship, even if others never change.

No, the program does not include monthly group sessions and it does not come with email or phone support. The program is self-paced and self-guided. If you need help, you can ask questions in the program's exclusive community. Members dealing with similar issues or the team will direct you to the most helpful modules and tools for your situation.

All plans are recurring subscriptions and will renew automatically unless canceled before the next billing cycle. You can cancel anytime with no further charges, and your access will remain active until the end of your billing period.

Absolutely. We have found that it typically takes 12-18 months for real, lasting self-differentiation transformation, but we want this to be a win-win for you, so you can cancel whenever you want. Just shoot us an email, and depending on whether you have a yearly or monthly membership, your membership will be canceled and you won't be charged any further!

Refunds are not available for The Road to Self program once access is granted.

Why I'm not offering refunds on the 'Road to Self': I'm assuming that if you're considering joining The Road to Self, then you likely have been following me on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook or Tiktok. I don't run ads, so the chances that you've stumbled upon this program through some Facebook or Google advertisement is zero.

This program is my best program. It's 45+ life changing lessons and hours worth of instructional videos, exercises and tools. (plus many hours in bonuses) . It's the program I wish existed when I started my healing many years ago!

This program is not for people who are on the fence. It's not for "tire kickers" or folks who are just "poking around". It's not for people who "don't have time" or may have buyer's remorse.

It's for people who are familiar with my work and my approach, understand how important healing is to me, and want to put in the work necessary to see real results.

If that's not you, please don't buy the program. If you're just "curious" and want to watch a few lessons and quit, please don't buy the program. If you cannot afford it, please do not buy it. If you don't think you'll have time for it, please do not buy it.

If you're committed to your self-differentiation process and want to learn everything that I've learned over the last 45 years, there's zero chance you'll be disappointed.

Thank you for understanding

Once you join, you will receive an email with your login details for the program. You’ll have immediate access to all of the material, allowing you to work through the program at your own pace and in any order that best fits your healing journey.

If you have any further questions or need assistance, please email us at hello@jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com , or fill out our contact form—we’re happy to help!