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GET YOUR FAMILY OUT OF YOU.
Become the person you were never allowed to be.
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The #1 Expert on Breaking Free from Family & Relationship Dysfunction Through Self-Differentiation
For the past 45 years, Jerry Wise has helped thousands of clients transform their lives in over 110 countries.
Jerry’s unique approach is specifically designed for adults who grew up in narcissistic, dysfunctional, and emotionally immature families, addressing the severity and lifelong dysfunction that most self-help advice fails to adequately support.
As a world-renowned speaker, family and marriage therapist, and family systems coach, Jerry Wise shares his unique method with millions of people online each month. He teaches them how to heal from the damaging effects of family dysfunction once and for all, and how to recover the self they were never allowed to be—peaceful, resilient, confident, and calm.
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200k+ Subscribers
30,000+ Transformations
1.
Get Family Dysfunction Out of You
Break free from the damaging effects of family dysfunction once and for all, whether you're in contact with your family or not.
2.
Reduce reactivity & Build solid boundaries
Stop being reactive to unchanging relationship dynamics and develop the boundaries needed to thrive.
3.
Become the you that you were meant to be
Discover & recover your real self you were never allowed to be—peaceful, resilient, confident, and happy.
How I Can Help You
Option 1 (RECOMMENDED)
Join the 'Road to Self' Program
Be Part of What Works:
Join over 10,000 people who have transformed their lives with the Road to Self Program.
Option 2
Book a Coaching Session
Get Personalized Guidance:
Receive tailored support to navigate your journey to self-differentiation and healing.
Client Transformations
I wish I had access to this program earlier in my life. The program has provided me with the confidence, tools, and knowledge to move past my painful past despite a very dysfunctional family background and I am loving discovering who I truly am. If you are looking for a transformative experience that can help you overcome your struggles efficiently, then this is it.
May 2024
John
I love road to self soo much, so deep and insightful! I spent a lifetime, taking responsibility for their bad behavior. Self blame all my self. I am not good enough, something is wrong with me. Jerry this course is a game changer.
February 2024
Caroline
I had tremendous guilt in relation to my mother that I've been enmeshed with for 46 years and didn't even realize it. joining 'Road to Self' two months ago, has helped me more with my guilt, anxiety and mood disruptions than anything else I've tried in the past and I will be forever grateful for his teachings.
February 2024
Janet
Years of therapy haven’t come close to what this program has gave me. The moment I discovered Jerry, I knew immediately that working on my self- differentiation was the missing piece in my puzzle. I joined a year ago and this has been the most transformative year for me.
April 2024
Lyla D.
'Road to Self' has helped me accept that my family of origin will never be healed, and I have given up hope on this. Greater acceptance. My biggest breakthrough since joining has been that I don't have to live in anxiety – an anxiety that wasn't even mine, but my family's craziness!
April 2024
Alina
This is the most powerful, impactful work you will ever encounter. I have space to be me in a really dysfunctional family & environment. I never thought this level of calmness and connectedness to myself was even possible. Thank you, thank you , thank you.
April 2024
Daniel M.
This program was one of my best investments in my 61 years. Before joining the program, I read testimonials on the website and hoped they were genuine testimonials from actual people. I can assure future participants that we are all real people. The benefits of participating in the program will enhance the entirety of my life, a life I now see lived with confidence, courage, and self-differentiation. Thank you, Jerry.
January 2024
Emily T.
I started your program Road to Self in June and it’s so rich with practical wisdom I constantly keep coming back to different modules as my thinking adjusts. It’s a new way of thinking for me and it is so different from what we’re taught not only by our dysfunctional families but the society in general. The concept of Self differentiation itself takes so much time to grasp but it‘s life changing!
February 2025
Lisa M.
I am 38 years old and my life would have been very different if I had the tools and deep insight road to self gave me. Thank you so much Jerry!
May 2024
Ben
This program is pure gold! Thank you from the bottom of my heart! This self-differentiation process has helped me in a way I never imagined possible!
April 2024
Mercedes K.
I don't believe I'm saying this, I achieved my goal of getting my mental Family of origin out of me. I have more space for my own plans and initiatives. I am still processing that it is even possible to get far past their toxic programming. That it is possible, even necessary to care a great deal about others without getting involved in their mess.
March 2024
Sage
I cannot recommend this program enough. After over 30 years of traditional therapy with multiple therapists, I can confidently say that this program has done more for me in one month than any of those sessions combined. Jerry's expertise and understanding of getting unstuck from toxic family dynamics is unparalleled.
March 2024
Robert
My family stayed crazy but their craziness no longer gets to me. The program helped me build inner boundaries and move beyond their toxic mess. I’m so grateful, I wish I had done this earlier!!!
May 2024
Alex P.
My experience with the program has been life-enhancing and continues to unfold. The logjam in my thinking was freed, giving me a new path to view my family of origin and myself! I see clearly now that I had a role, not a relationship. Going forward, I get to be me, and they get to be them. I want to thank you, Jerry, for your program; it has become a bible for me, and the tools have become a part of me.
March 2024
Mary H.
The Road to Self program made me fire my therapist, we were working on the wrong issues ALL ALONG! I'm working through the program for the third time, it became my new therapist. My guilt, shame and low self esteem is fading away. I love getting my family out of me!
May 2024
Taylor
Free 84-Minute Training:
Top Practices to Build The Self You Were Never Allowed To Have
Unlock effective strategies and practical techniques to break free from toxic family roles and patterns.
What You Will Get:
The sooner you learn what I will share with you in this training, the sooner you can experience less pain and more peace in your relationships & life.
13 practices you can implement immediately to aid you in detaching and becoming your differentiated self.
How to stop being reactive to the emotional triggers set by your narcissistic family and others.
Effective strategies to break free from toxic family roles & patterns and their negative impact on your life.
