What is the Road to Self program, and who is it for?

Road to Self is a self-paced online program that teaches you how to break free from dysfunctional family dynamics through self-differentiation. It’s designed for adults raised in emotionally immature, narcissistic, or enmeshed families who want to stop repeating old patterns and finally live as their true self.
 

You can find more information about the program here (https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/road-to-self)

Who is Jerry Wise?

Jerry Wise is a Family Systems and Self-Differentiation expert with over 45 years of experience helping adults break free from family dysfunction. His work focuses on emotional freedom, calm detachment, and becoming your true self — regardless of whether your family ever changes.
 

What topics does the Road to Self program cover?
 

The program teaches you how to:
 

• Get your family’s dysfunction out of you

• Build a solid, calm, true Self (self-differentiation)

• Set boundaries without guilt or fear

• Stop people-pleasing and emotional reactivity

• Heal from enmeshment and over-responsibility

• Break painful patterns that keep repeating

These are the core foundations — but the full program goes even deeper, helping you emotionally reposition yourself so you can live from your real self, not the self your family created.

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What’s included in the Road to Self membership?

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• On-demand video lessons across six structured modules

• Practical tools and reflection exercises

• A private online community

• Access from any device 24/7

• Additional self-differentiation resources.

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How long is the Road to Self program?

It’s entirely self-paced. Some go through it in weeks, others explore it slowly over a year. You can revisit content anytime while your membership is active.
 

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Can I watch the videos from the Road to Self program at my own pace?
 

Yes — all videos are on-demand, and there’s no pressure to follow a fixed timeline.
 

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How much does the Road to Self program cost?
 

We offer the program in three different membership options so you can choose what works best for you:
 

• $79/month – Flexible monthly plan with full access from day one.

• $397/6 months – Includes bonus workshop recordings access.

• $597/year – Most popular option. Saves money and includes additional tools and bonuses.

You can cancel anytime, and you'll keep access until the end of your current billing period. You won’t be charged after that.

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Can I try the Road to Self program for a month?

Yes — you’ll receive full access right away. If you decide to upgrade to the yearly plan within 14 days, we’ll apply your first payment toward the full annual amount.

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Do I get lifetime access to the Road to Self program?

 

No. You’ll have access as long as your membership remains active. If you cancel, your access continues until the end of your current billing period.

 

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What happens after I pay for the Road to Self program?

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You’ll receive an email with a link to get immediate access to all content. Most people start with the welcome video and progress at their own pace.
 

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What platform is the Road to Self program hosted on?
 

The program is hosted on Circle — a secure, user-friendly platform accessible on desktop and mobile.

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Is there a payment plan or alternate payment method to Join Road to Self program?
 

We accept credit and debit cards. Some users have success with PayPal.
 

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Can I access the Road to Self program from my phone or tablet?
 

Yes — access everything from phone, tablet, or desktop, 24/7.

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Is group coaching included in the Road to Sell program?
 

No, the Road to Self program does not include monthly group sessions and it does not come with email or phone support. The program is self-paced and self-guided. If you need help, you can ask questions in the program's exclusive community. Members dealing with similar issues or the team will direct you to the most helpful modules and tools for your situation.

 

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If I cancel my membership, will I still have access to the Road to Self program?

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Yes, until the end of your current billing period. You won’t be charged again after that.

 

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Can I cancel Road to Self anytime?

 

Yes — contact us here — someone from Jerry's team will personally take care of your request in the next 24 to 48hs.

 

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What’s the refund policy for the Road to Self program?

 

Because this is a digital program with immediate access, refunds are not offered once access is granted. Join only when it truly feels like the right next step.

 

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How can I cancel my Road to Self program membership?

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Contact us here — someone from Jerry's team will personally take care of your request in the next 24 to 48hrs (Usually less).

 

Will I get support from Jerry directly in this Road to Self program?

 

No, the content is pre-recorded, but you can book coaching separately—either with Jerry or one of our other coaches who were personally certified by him.

 

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